At my last checkup my physician asked if my
diet contained enough calcium and fiber. We agreed that my headaches
could relate to getting up during the night to breast-feed a hungry
6-month-old.
But what if he'd asked how I'd been coping
with new motherhood, increased responsibility and the emotional ups and
downs of a loved one? Asked about the thoughts and emotions that
traverse the secret, inward world behind my eyes — a world never fully
seen by anyone but God? Surely a general lack of sleep and, every month
or so, a pounding heart, knotted stomach and shaking hands affect the
vessels, valves and cells so necessary for physical life.
What
if he'd written me a prescription for generous amounts of social
support? Asked me to eat more fruits of the spirit? Recommended that I
meditate on what is true, pure and holy? Suggested that I be more
forgiving of others and myself?
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